Friday, April 25, 2014

Feel, Don't Conceal: Why Frozen is So Important


Having a Disney movie become a massive hit and a critical success is nothing new for the massive company.  Entire generations have been in love with these films since Snow White came out in 1937.  The impressive canon of films that have been released by Disney includes beloved stories ranging from Beauty and the Beast to Aladdin.  Clearly they are doing something right to have allowed them this level of success for the last 75+ years.  Young girls still love to dress up as Cinderella, Aurora, and Tiana for Halloween.  25 year olds are still debating if Jasmine or Belle is the better choice for personal favorite (I’ll give you a hint: it’s Jasmine).  “A Whole New World” is still played as a couple’s first dance at their wedding.  The point is that Disney and their fairy tale films carry the power and influence to influence a massive number of people.  They can literally shape how a child views love, life, and relationships.  Which brings us to the key of all this.  Simply put, Disney has an obligation to continually evolve, mature, and improve the messages they are sending.  Luckily for everyone, they are doing a wonderful job of this.  For proof of this, we need look no further than their most recent masterpiece (because that is exactly what it is) Frozen.

Frozen starts off with a familiar feel.  We are introduced to a magical princess, Elsa, and her sister Anna.  Due to the uncertain and unfamiliar characteristics of Elsa’s powers over snow, ice, and weather, her parents seek the council of the wise trolls who preach that control will be key to Elsa’s happiness.  How do her parents respond to this advice?  Well, they lock her in a castle and tell her to pretend these powers don’t exist.  “Conceal, don’t feel” becomes their motto every time Elsa comes to them with feelings of sadness or concern regarding her powers.  This approach is not exactly successful, unsurprisingly, and ends in Elsa losing control of her emotions and her powers, revealing her secret to her kingdom, and causing a frigid winter to fall upon the kingdom in the middle of summer. 



And from this, Disney provides one of their most important and meaningful messages to ever come from one of their movies.  The realization that emotions are not meant to be ignored is one that everyone must learn in life.  How often are children forced to feel embarrassment and confusion when experiencing emotions that are new to them?  Boys are told that they are not supposed to cry because it shows weakness.  Girls are reminded to only feel positive about themselves if they look and act certain ways.  Emotions are a natural part of being human and trying to push them down or ignore them is only going to lead to outbursts or explosions that end up hurting ourselves and those around us. 

We see this with Elsa.  At first, she feels a wonderful sense of catharsis and relief at having to no longer hide her powers.  Keep in mind that her powers are representative of any powerful emotion that people may experience and have felt the need to conceal.  And although there is a comforting release that comes in the form of the gorgeous song “Let It Go”, at the end of it Elsa is left completely isolated and alone.  These powers are not inherently bad.  Imagine the happiness and overall quality of life that could have been experienced by both Elsa and Anna if she and her parents had instead worked to develop the skills necessary to gain control over these powers.  It would have produced a far more functional, healthy, and beneficial relationship between Elsa and everyone around her.  Instead she is told to conceal, don’t feel, and just stay in your room.  Having trouble with this tough time?  Just put some gloves on.  We will all face difficult times, challenging feelings, and other obstacles throughout life.  Avoidance and hiding are not how we get through them.  We get through them with the help of our support systems and those we love.  We get through them through maturation, personal growth, and the counsel of those we respect and value. 

Children need to know that locking the door to their room will not make the problem go away and will not stop the feelings from having an internal effect.  All it will do is cause a build up of pressure and stress that will have to be let out somehow.  Odds are it won’t be as beautiful or graceful as an ice castle. 


Surprisingly, Frozen isn’t done here.  It stills has an equally important message to give.  Warning:  There may be SPOILERS ahead if you have not yet seen the movie.

Disney has been criticized in the past for providing inaccurate and unrealistic depictions of love and how it develops.  But then Tangled came out a few years ago and started laying the groundwork for a new approach to how young men and women should view themselves and relationships.  There is a wonderful and comical scene where Rapunzel and a room full of brutal marauders sing “I’ve Got a Dream” which is all about how we should not listen to societal norms or other stereotypes that tell us that our goals and hopes are not right for us.  If a Viking wants to be a concert pianist, who are we to tell him not to?  If a strong and independent woman wants to pursue her dream of travel and excitement, she should be able to do just that, even if she is told constantly that to do so in unrealistic and outside of her abilities.  Frankly, I wish Gunther luck with his interior design!  Slowly, we start to see Disney telling the boys and girls watching to pursue their dreams. 




However, there is another change that Tangled makes that is a little more subtle.  It is still a “classic” love story where the boy and girl meet and quickly find themselves attracted to one another.  However, unlike past tales that take place over three days and preach “love at first sight”, the main couple of Tangled wait two years to get married.  It is only mentioned once at the end of the movie, but it is a massively important development.



Frozen takes this as a stepping-stone and leaps off of it.  There are scenes where Disney literally mocks itself.  “Wait!  You are engaged to a man you just met today?”  and “You can’t marry a man you just met” are both direct quotes.  I fully admit to being a hopeless romantic who loves fairy tales.  Falling in love at first sight is something that I smile about.  But it simply isn’t realistic or healthy for a relationship as serious as marriage.  Taking time to gain a deeper understanding of a significant other is a really important step in a relationship.  Working through the obstacles and challenges that naturally arise in every couple’s time together is something that is used to build a really solid foundation on which a marriage can be successful.  In short, Disney is taking a genre mainstay of “love at first sight” and changing it to a more healthy and realistic depiction of how love looks.  That is something that is encouraging to see.  These princesses are maturing and their audience is better off because of it.

But wait, there’s more.  These storytellers wanted to take one more cliché and blow it up.  There comes a point in the story where Anna is going to die unless an act of true love occurs.  Naturally, this means true love’s first kiss!  I’ve seen Snow White and Sleeping Beauty!  Luckily, Anna has met the man she is going to marry in Hans.  They rush back to the palace and they are about to share the beautiful moment that will release her from the curse that is threatening her life.  And just like that, the world flips upside down.  Hans doesn’t love her at all, it is simply a plot to steal the throne.  I felt like the kid in Princess Bride who says “wait, that can’t be right!” 

Anna is left to die and Hans seems to have a clear path to the throne.  All that’s left is to kill Elsa.  Through a series of events Elsa is left vulnerable with Hans standing over her with his sword drawn.  With her last ounce of strength, Anna throws herself in front of her sister and away from the man who could fulfill the traditional Disney definition of love. 



In this story, true love exists between sisters.  And that is massively important.  Kids and adults alike are getting a very important lesson in love here.  In fact throughout the movie, there has been an emotional roller coaster due to the fact that love can lead to wonderful highs and painful lows.  Love can occur between any two people.  It doesn’t have to be Prince Charming standing over his fallen princess.  Love has countless forms that it can take and they are all incredibly powerful. 

Through some gorgeous animation, clever humor, and captivating storytelling, Disney has set itself on a path of challenging its viewers to think about some very important topics.  And I simply cannot wait to see what happens next.  The core theme of “love conquering all” is still present.  What’s different is that Disney and its viewers are now wrestling with how big and complex that idea really is. 

And that’s why Frozen is so important!  It’s the first real step Disney has taken to show that it is able to make positive adjustments for this new generation of films without sacrificing the colorful characters, fantastic songs, or brilliant stories that gave Disney its reputation. 

I love Disney.  I always have and I don’t see that changing anytime soon. 


Also, do you want to build a snowman?   


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